Creating is a glorious way to express yourself. It’s a way to share a bit of who you are. Some people like to create in their gift giving. Showing love through time and talents is their way to show love to others.
Though homemade gifts speak to some, others would prefer to receive money, gift cards or a high five. If you happen to be one of the lucky ones to receive such a gift, receive it with grace and gratitude. As one that has pulled more than a few all nighters finishing a homemade gift the joy that comes from an excited recipient…Man that is THE BEST!
Shortly before my in-laws wedding anniversary I decided to make them a memory quilt out of denim squares. I then embroidered memories from their courtship, family vacations, likes, loves, important dates…you get the idea. Then in the empty squares I embroidered leaves to symbolize a family tree. I was nervous to give it to them. What if they didn’t like it? When I gave it to them I told them it was a picnic blanket (denim squares remember?) That was my intention from the start. When they opened it, no-one said ANYTHING! ANYTHING! I was mortified! I quickly told them it was a picnic blanket so they would understand my intention. Then they looked up from the package…with tears in their eyes. They LOVED the quilt, baulked at the idea of it being used as a picnic blanket and to this day it is moved around the house on a large curtain rod, a family heirloom for all that come to the house to see.
Then there are those moments when homemade gifts aren’t received quite so well…I try not to set myself up for failure but I definitely have them.
A few rules I’ve given myself:
- If the gift isn’t complete, I don’t give it.
- If the gift isn’t the right fit (in my opinion), I don’t give it.
- If a few homemade gifts are poorly received by the same person I go back to more simple or purchased gifts.
- If I don’t have the mental or emotional energy I don’t stress about doing homemade.
- Perhaps the most important rule-I try not to project my expectations on to the gift recipient.
So when you are giving a gift from the heart and it happens to be homemade-way to go! Create and share who you are!
Much Love,
Amy Lou
amyloudesigns.com 